First Published 11/12/06
VR: Mark; this is indeed an honor for me and the IACOJ. We feel so fortunate that you have taken the time to talk with us. How are you and Cleo doing at the moment?
MW: Right now, we are hanging in there. Of course, Kim Holman, my boss at Dalmatian Fire Equipment has made the transition a lot easier than it could have been. Having said that, being a new salesman, it’s tough to build a client base, and besides, I really am not a salesman; I am a fireman.
VR: If you don’t mind, I’d like you to tell us about yourself before you founded Helping Our Own (HOO) and don’t be modest; I have your biography!
MW: LOL, … Well, you know some of my past, but I am going to shock most of your readers with what I have to tell. In fact, I am going to tell you the abridged story of my life; one that I am writing a book about. Unfortunately, it was seized with my computer by those in Helping Our Own.
I was a severely abused child. As far as I can recall, I was beaten from the age of 6 years old by an immediate family member with hammers, 2×4’s, sledgehammer handles, fists and so much more. Often times, I would go to school with bruises and I would be threatened with death if I told how I got those scars. Many years later, I would be told by doctors that there were broken bones during that time.
While not proud of it, after leaving home and getting away from that family member, I was a total screw-up. I soon began having a drinking problem and thoughts of suicide. In the mid 80’s, I tried to commit suicide at the hands of police officers. This was something that landed me on probation for five years. While still on probation, I got into trouble for a bad check. I was spiraling down a bad road. My temper was out of control.
While still in the confused trouble mode in my early twenties, someone came to me and offered me an EMS course. I decided to go ahead and take it. My attitude was like “What the hell; it can’t hurt anything.” This course changed my life! I soon began helping others and I liked what I did and I liked to help others. I made up my mind that the rest of my life would be spent helping others.
I first joined a local volunteer EMS squad and I always thirsted for more knowledge. Within a year, because I was always bugging them about more training, they said “Hey, you want training, get it for us all. You’re now the training officer!” So I did. Local fire departments saw a passion in me and invited me to join. Soon, I was the Training Officer of a department and I was getting training from everywhere I could; for everyone.
Things just progressed from there. After several years in these departments I moved and 3 days after moving into a small community in Missouri, the Chief and the President of the Board of the local fire department came knocking on my door, unsolicited. They said they had heard I was good at what I did and asked me if I would come to work on their department. I started out on this department as Training Officer and worked my way up to Assistant Chief. During this time, I worked for the County Emergency Management as training and exercise officer for three fire departments and was the Vice President of the County Mutual Aid association.
When I saw a need for equipment for these departments, I took the basics of a couple ideas from others that were doing it for their own department and expanded it to help the whole county. The overwhelming success of this turned into Helping Our Own, a nationwide program.
VR: Who do you credit for getting you started in the fire service and what would you say to them now?
MW: I give credit to a nurse who thought I had the qualities of an EMS worker. If she were alive now, I would thank her and tell her she changed a troubled kid to become a person that is honored to help others and in one way or another helped to save many lives.
VR: What did you find to be the most rewarding aspect of your active duty?
MW: The most rewarding aspect was when you saved a life, especially a small child. With Helping Our Own, even though I wasn’t personally saving lives, I provided the equipment so others could save lives. This never would have been possible if not for the tools that the organization provided.
VR: Your “most memorable” incident? I know there are many, but if you had to “frame” one, what “one” would it be?
MW: There are several, but the one that sticks out in my mind happened about 15 years ago and I suffered post traumatic stress from it for about 8 or 9 years.
We were called out about 16:30 in the afternoon for a “head-on” accident. When we arrived on scene, we saw a van on its side and another car down a deep ditch; a small ravine. As we jumped out of the rescue, we heard kids screaming in the back of the van. We opened up the van and we find 5 or 6 kids, ranging in age from 2 to 12 years old and one adult. They’re all screaming and crying and we are short handed, because of daytime staffing problems in a volunteer organization. I called three other departments to come in right away. Some of the kids wanted to rush out, so I grabbed a by-stander and had them watch the walking wounded, while my partner went to check the other car. I had another by-stander watch those that I didn’t want to move until either the ambulance arrived or I had the proper tools in hand to package them. I looked up and saw hips and legs of an adult coming out from the passenger door, which was on the pavement. I ran around to see what we had and I found the mother and a four or five month old baby cut in half by the door! Apparently, when the two vehicles hit headlight to headlight, the passenger door popped open, the woman and the baby were almost ejected and then the rolling of the van cut them in half.
When I went back inside to check on the remaining small children, I saw a six pack, literally strapped in the babies’ car seat. The stupid bitch strapped in a six pack and held the kid in her arms. In total, we lost three people that day; two adults and one infant. To make it worse, we found out that the woman that strapped the beer in the carrier caused the accident by slugging her sister in the jaw and kicking the steering wheel.
VR: We have talked about your heart; now, let’s talk about your “soul”- Helping Our Own. In just four, short years under the HOO banner, you collected, refurbished and distributed 28 million dollars worth of equipment to needy fire departments across the nation. What was your “strategic plan”?
MW: Actually, we moved $36 million (used value) of equipment in six years and helped somewhere around 800 fire departments. I was responsible for Operations. Find the equipment, get it to the refurb center, refurbish it and get it back out. I scheduled this by what they told me about money availability. Unfortunately, they continually lied and broke their word. We would be scheduling pick-ups for two weeks out and HR (Wilkinson) would walk up to the truck driver, never telling me this and say “We’re out of money, so you aren’t going back out for a while.” Meanwhile I had pick-ups scheduled two to three weeks out.
StickyNote: Update Mark’s biography!
VR: I have seen it in companies that grew too fast. They became “asset rich”, but “cash poor”. Is that what happened to HOO?
MW: Actually, NO! What happened is that we were promised the moon and for a year or two, they did quite a lot. Then it was like they shut off the faucet and quit funding. We had numerous things in place, sometimes even a couple hundred thousand dollar deals and HR Wilkinson would stop it. We actually had payroll deduction to hand out to fire departments as we picked up and delivered equipment, brochures printed and everything set up and he even stopped that one.
VR: Were there any national sponsorships helping to under write your expenses?
MW: No, we weren’t allowed to bring those in and if we did, H.R. Wilkinson would find an excuse to not accept it.
VR: How/when did the Wilkinson Group enter the picture? Did you solicit them or did they solicit you?
MW: They actually solicited us I believe in late 2002. In fact, H.R. Wilkinson flew in representing the National Fire Safety Council to meet with me at ICHIEFS in New Orleans. He didn’t want his son K.C. to know he was there, because K.C. was working the National Fire Safety Council booth. About six or eight months later, I found out why. HR didn’t like his son having control, so he booted him out of the organization, took his car and just about everything he worked for. I heard that he even tried to kick his son, daughter-in-law and his two grandchildren (under 5 years old) out of the house, because he was a co-signer on their loan, but I can’t confirm this.
VR: Your relationship with that group was described as “tumultuous”. Is that how you would describe it?
MW: Tumultuous is an understatement! I was actually assaulted by H.R. Wilkinson several times and he’s over 80 years old. Once, he almost sucker punched me and Cleo screamed my name. When I spun around, he had his fist drawn back. As you can imagine, I stand up for myself. When I saw his fist drawn back, I assumed a defensive position and said “Old man, if you EVER sucker punch me, you will wake up in either the hospital or the morgue!”
Once, when he assaulted me, I carried a bruise for about a week to a week and a half. He was a bully, a control freak and if an idea didn’t come from him or if he couldn’t add his own twist, it was no good.
VR: If I were to write an article entitled “The Gutting of Helping Our Own”, what would I write?
MW: You’d write it was filled with broken promises and lies. I was promised pay and so were the Board of Directors that resigned. We were promised fundraising to help HOO grow, which never happened. Wilkinson would throw a little money here and a little money there from one of his other organizations, but there was never fundraising that I saw. I worked for five or six years with the promise of pay and not only did I not get paid, but they never paid me back my initial investment of $20,000 to $25,000, which they promised. Now, they are holding all of my personal belongings and refusing to give them back; things like my National Forestry Hero Award, The American Red Cross Everyday Hero Award, my firefighting certificates that were hanging on the walls, my patch and truck collections, my car and the title to it, which was in the filing cabinet. They even have the first, exact same fire truck (not one like it) I ever rode on when I was seven years old; a 1956 Ford with a Towers body.
Since August 30th, when they terminated Cleo and me, they have refused to return our personal belongings and Wilkinson refuses to talk to me. I think I need to start a legal fund, … LOL!
VR: With your foot prints all over HOO, were you concerned about the public’s perception of your group’s reputation?
MW: HOO is ruined! Even if they tried to give it back, it’s tainted and it can’t recover. Integrity is very important to me and I feel my integrity is now in question too, because I allowed myself to be sucked in by these people. That is why I will only work as a consultant for Fire Aid USA. I will help to prevent the organization from making the mistakes I did when running Helping Our Own. While this may seem a little conceited, I feel I have to make the next statement. Let’s face it, there is only one person in the world that knows how the operations of an organization like this works and I am that person. I need to pass the knowledge on while I still can.
VR: I know that you’re a real gentleman and had a board of directors that was above reproach, but from a legal aspect, why couldn’t you regain control of your dream? I mean; it almost sounds like there was a “hostile takeover”, doesn’t it?
MW: LOL, … I could, if I had the money to fight it, but would it be worth it? I think the best thing to do and probably the most economical, would be to build another, get brothers and sisters to unite under Fire Aid USA and put Helping Our Own out of business.
To be honest, if I could afford the attorneys, I would start a class action lawsuit on behalf of the fire departments of the United States and start a suit on behalf of Mark and Cleo Warnick. I would also talk to the original Board of Directors and see if they would be interested in a suit for breach of contract, because they were given a verbal contract of what would be done with HOO. It was more or less a hostile takeover, but done so we didn’t know it was a hostile takeover until much later.
They used a loophole in the law to lower the fundraising expenses of National Fire Safety Council with Helping Our Own donated equipment, so they didn’t look like they were a bad charity. Yet, they sell thousands of fire departments the idea of using their materials.
VR: I don’t mean to put you on the spot and I know that there are legal implications, but the national fire service wants to know-check that-they NEED to know the whole truth and nothing but the truth. Without complicating matters, what can you tell us?
MW: Hmmm, well, I can tell you that we have had people investigating (pro-bono) Wilkinson and his operation. We recently found out that there are charges filed out of Pennsylvania on him, some of his board members and some of the charities, including National Fire Safety Council, and there are over 1,200 counts involved. A lot of the same board members are also members of Helping Our Own.
I also know that he made many racial slurs, doesn’t hire disabled, blacks or Hispanics, yet took money from the federal government and said he was an equal opportunity employer. He would regularly say that he rarely hired firefighters because they were lazy; another war that we had often. I have heard from his own mouth that he used to hang around with Jimmy Hoffa, the Farmer, and many other Teamsters during their heydays and I have had people that were Teamsters during this time confirm it. He has taken over several organizations, much like he did Helping Our Own and done the same or worse to them. I also have overheard conversations where he was setting people up to discredit them, including planting evidence and shredding documents. He and some of the organizations he runs and board members were sued by the Missing Child Help Center lawyers on a bankruptcy case, and there is so much more that I can’t even list it.
I held on trying to get Helping Our Own away from him and I suspect that is why Cleo and I were let go. We also have our suspicions that the computers and office were bugged, because there was information thrown back in our face that was never talked about, except between Cleo and I.
As far as me; I tried to do the best I could for my fire service. I always did my best to protect the brothers and sisters from mutts like this. Did I do everything perfect? Probably not, but I always tried to do all I could for the fire service. I fully expect that this is not over though and he and his cronies will try to do something to discredit me. That is just his way. Win at all costs and leave the carnage by the road.
VR: What was your reaction to the outpouring of support that you have seen by no less than Firehouse.com, Harry Carter, your good friend, Lou Jordan and of course, Kim Holman of Dalmatian Fire?
MW: I have dealt with many of these people for years. Kim Holman has been informed all along the way about what was going on. For four years he was on the Board of Directors for HOO and was constantly trying to get me away to start Fire Aid USA. He was never invited to a Board meeting, he repeatedly asked for Board Meeting minutes, he repeatedly asked for financials statements and never got them from Wilkinson. I continually kept him up to date on what was going on and after about a year of being on the BOD and being screwed by Wilkinson for about $30,000 on refurbished SCBA, Kim begged me to come to Utah and start a new organization. Unfortunately, I was knee deep in trying to save Helping Our Own. Two days before we were removed, Kim asked me to come to Utah and be a salesman for him. He even talked about starting Fire Aid USA. When I received the papers from National Fire Safety Council, I called him right away. Within three weeks, we were in Utah. Because National Fire Safety Council had left us broke, even holding back paychecks from Cleo’s salary, Kim provided us the moving van and the money to move. When we got here, they had rented us a condo to live in and he got nine people (including himself) to help unload the truck and to help Cleo unpack. He took us out and bought us $400 worth of groceries and because I didn’t have a vehicle, he loaned me his Hummer for 6 weeks until we found the right car; then, he bought the car for us. Interestingly enough, even though Kim has never fought a real fire or served on a department, he has taken classes and since I’ve been here, both he and Trevor Johnston (the General Manager of Dalmatian) want to join the local fire department.
As for Harry Carter, what a treasure he is. He and I have been friends for probably seven years. Often times (over the past 7 or 8 years), I will use Harry for a sounding board; someone to get directions from. The fire service has a true treasure in him and he’s not shy. The one thing that someone pointed out about his post (Firehouse.com) is that he has been a member since 1999 and this was his first post ever! I could go on and on about Harry, but I would just be telling everyone what they already know.
Lou Jordan and many others have always been good friends and often, I would tell them what I was up against. Had it not been for them, I probably would have felt like a secluded man on an island and I thank them for their support.
As far as the brothers and sisters that have been sending messages, it confirms to me that I was doing the right thing, although it surprised me by how many have come out of the woodwork with such kind things to say. The fire service is a family and we all know this. The support of this family has given me the inspiration to continue on and to fight harder for those that need our help. God willing, we will be able to help these folks and save some firefighters lives, but it is going to take more than me consulting the new organization. It’s going to take all of my brothers and sisters making a commitment of preventing Line of Duty Deaths by helping to protect firefighters that cannot afford PPE, SCBA or that drive a 50 year old piece of apparatus. I know that my fire service family can do it; I just pray that they actually do their part.
VR: Now, we have a dog with different spots. Tell us about Fire Aid USA. Will it be bigger and better?
MW: If I have anything to say about it, Fire Aid USA will be bigger, better and do more than Helping Our Own. While we are still in the beginning stages, we are talking about having reserves ready to totally outfit a fire station should they get hit by fire, tornado or some other disaster. We are going to recycle anything that is not usable to help preserve the environment. We are going to try to prepare for the next disaster by having containers ready to ship with all of the most needed equipment for the next Katrina, earthquake or any other major disaster and we want to give equipment to any department that can’t afford it. We have many other ideas and they are all dependant on funding, but I can assure you, if this effort fails, it won’t be because of one person running it into the ground.
VR: If this were a template for a business class, what have you learned?
MW: Never trust anyone that might be potential mutts!
VR: This is what I have learned: when a passion to fulfill a mission is as strong as your’s is, nothing and no one can kill that dream. Would you agree?
MW: I would agree with that; however, there are many days when you are discouraged. Usually in a day or two, someone will call or e-mail you and say “Hey, I just wanted to thank you.” Interestingly enough, I had an e-mail just the other day from a department in Mississippi that was wiped out by Katrina. The person that wrote me the e-mail said they were fighting a structure fire and were in the mop up process. While some of them were sitting around talking, one of them said “Hey, look at us, almost all of the PPE we have on came from Helping Our Own and Mark Warnick.” They said a long conversation ensued and they were fondly remembering how I got them help quickly, delivered it to their door and it didn’t cost them a dime.
Having said this, the beginnings of Fire Aid USA will take money. Both Kim Holman and I are willing to fork out the beginnings of that money. To help us reach that goal, if anyone needs any fire equipment, please keep Dalmatian Fire Equipment in mind, because this is how we have made and will make the money to start Fire Aid USA.
VR: As a former chief for a small, struggling, rural, volunteer fire department, I can only say “thank God there are people like you in the fire service”. You exemplify the spirit of the brother/sisterhood and set a sterling example for others coming up to follow. As is my custom, you have my thanks and the last word.
MW: I don’t think I am a sterling example; I am just a brother who does his part. For me, each time we lose a brother or sister firefighter, a small piece of my heart is ripped out. To me, I have to do everything I can to prevent this. By providing equipment and advice in the past, I have done as much as I could. I have always wondered if there was something I could have done to help save others. God willing, Fire Aid USA will continue on where Helping Our Own left off.
My final words to all of the brothers and sisters out there are to do everything you can to protect and save your brothers and sisters. While honoring them after their gone is important, it is more important to try to keep them alive while they are here. Please do as much as you can.
Voice of Reason Post Script
It appears as though the Wilkinson Charities preyed upon successful, national non-profit organizations to extend their already burgeoning revenue streams.
I read the entire document of charges brought by the Pennsylvania Bureau of Charitable Organizations against the Wilkinson Charities and I got to tell you, Wilkinson’s [i]modis operandi[/i] is not that complicated.
Before I lay out some eye opening numbers on you, the crusty members, let’s look at what he did with the National Fire Safety Council, as described in the PA BCO’s legal action.
Wilkinson or those working under his direct control would send “safety counselors” into communities to promote fire safety, especially among school-aged children. The “safety counselors” would first go to the police/fire departments, get letters of support from the chiefs, show them to potential donors as “testimonials” and in return, the National Fire Safety Council would provide “free” materials to fire safety programs. I’m sure that the school kids were all given brochures, so that Mom and Dad could donate as well. But the real kicker is this: the “safety counselors would collect a 40% commission on the donations that they raised! WTF? Over!
It gets better!
According to the charges against Wilkinson in Pennsylvania, at the other end of this scheme, from 1998 – 2001, Wilkinson paid himself a total of $183,350.00 in compensation from the National Fire Safety Council. Doesn’t seem so bad on the surface, does it?
Ah; there’s more.
Wilkinson took compensation from [b]ALL[/b] of his charities. From 1998 – 2001, H.R. Wilkinson took $1,664,167.43 in compensation from his Wilkinson “Charities”. That’s not a typo!
And that’s not counting the money he got from his H & T Rentals and Valley Bingo deal. From 1999 – 2001, Wilkinson received a total of $495,000 in “subleasing payments”. Hey, folks; I ain’t making this up. It’s in the public record!
Here’s another eye popper.
Missing Child, a Florida non-profit started by Ivanna DiNova and taken over by Wilkinson’s National Child charity had to file bankruptcy. Could it be because Missing Child, from 1997 – 2001, pumped $5.6 million into National Child, but only received $120,000 back? Man; I can’t believe that 60 Minutes and Mike Wallace didn’t go after this guy!
Anyone out there feel like buying your fire education materials from National Fire Safety Council and the Wilkinson Charities?
It is clear that Mark and Cleo Warnick and Helping Our Own were victims, like so many others were. And the “Valley Bingo Lease” reads like a scheme that was hatched by a drunk trying to hide his girlfriend from his wife!
Let’s not forget that Wilkinson was licensed in Michigan and Texas. Will he be charged in those states as well? The Pennsylvania beef has been there for two years. Does anyone know the disposition? Can our brothers from PA shed some light?
Is it safe to say here that we have yet another example of the greedy taking from the needy?
And if the fact that you can no longer access www.helpingourown.org is any indication, then Helping Our Own is dead.
Long live Fire Aid USA and God bless them!
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